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This is a great one, Steve from is on his way to retiring at the end of this year. While that sounds great, here is the really important part… Steve is in his 30’s. The key point I take away from this is that Steve and his wife Courtney came up with a plan to be free and stuck with it. I hope you enjoy this interview as much as I have.


Let’s Begin!



Let’s talk a little bit about who you are and where you are coming from. Tell me about your money journey? What got you started in learning about personal finance?


In general, dissatisfaction with my full-time job spurred on my initial interest in personal finance. Shortly before I married my wife Courtney, it occurred to us that with two sources of income, we could save a tremendous amount of money – if we wanted to.


By saving a ton of cash between two incomes, I thought, I could afford to explore other avenues of work that would make me happier. But, we began to realize that with enough passive income generated through our investments, we might not need to work again. Instead of looking for another line of work, maybe we save for the next couple of years and then call it quits.


That was two years ago.


Today, we are four (me) and six (my wife) months away from retirement. We’ve spent the last couple of years saving nearly 70% of our income. We routinely max out our 401ks at work. We rarely go out to eat. We canceled cable television. In fact, we sold both of our homes and now live in a 200 sqft Airstream. The stage has been set. All we need to do now is retire.


What would you say the biggest money obstacle has been for you to overcome?


Honestly, no obstacle was all that difficult to overcome. This is a mindset issue, not a money issue. Once we set our minds to early retirement, no obstacle was all that tough. It just takes some time, that’s all. If anything, it’s TIME that’s been the biggest challenge. We hate waiting.


How has overcoming that obstacle changed you?


I have become a much more patient person over the last couple of years. I used to be in a hurry practically all the time, but now, I realize that rushing through life is no way to live. I’ve learned to slow down. I’ve learned how to enjoy life’s little moments as they happen. I appreciate the little things a lot more.

Are there any obstacles you are still working on?


Not really. The plan has been set in motion…all that needs to happen at this point is for December to roll around, and then I’ll retire. The following February my wife calls it quits. Our savings is on autopilot at the moment. We’re working out our last remaining months, waiting patiently for the clock to strike “retirement!”


There’s a moment in the Godfather 3 when Michael Corleone is trying to get out of the “Family Business”, and he says: “Every time I try to get out, they pull me back in.” What is one bad money habit you just can’t seem to shake?


Nothing. Absolutely nothing. I am not 100% perfect, but I have prioritized retirement over everything else. There is not a single thing outside of what makes me genuinely happy that I spend money on these days. My habits all changed, for the better, over the course of the last couple of years. I want retirement more than I want stuff. And once I put it this way to myself, changing my spending habits was the next step…and it was easy.


If you were to start your money journey all over what would you do differently?


Start earlier. It is never too late to start saving, but if I had started soon after I graduated college, I’d easily be retired by now. I had a lot of fun in those days, but I also wasted a slew of cash. I’ve always had a 401k, but I didn’t seriously begin saving money until my early 30s.


What is your proudest money accomplishment?


We became 100% debt free this year with the sale of my house in July. By far, that is my proudest money accomplishment. Without debt, serious wealth accumulation is almost guaranteed even without an in-depth knowledge of the stock market and investing. Less money out means more money saved.

Who is your money hero?


My dad. He retired early at 49 and traveled the country with my mother full-time for 13 years. He made his money count and, although his career was solid and improved every year, working eight to 10 hours a day wasn’t his idea of enjoying life. Instead, he prioritized early retirement and made it happen, quitting his high-paying career in information technology and transforming his life for the better.


What was your worst money mistake?


Buying a home. When I was younger, I convinced myself that “building equity” was a smart thing to do, not truly understanding what that meant. In the end, I lost nearly $100,000 over the years of homeownership. Homeownership isn’t a guarantee of money, equity or positive credit. In fact, it quickly turns into a very expensive proposition, one that I wish I had never accepted. Lesson learned.


What was your first money lesson?


My dad taught me not to spend every dollar that I earned. Naturally, I wanted to enjoy my money as a kid by buying things, but I was required to keep a budget and abide by it. It taught me the value of saving cash, but also balancing my savings with “spending for enjoyment”. It is a tough balance to reach, and it’s different for everyone.


What money habits do you see in yourself (or others if you are perfect) that make you cringe?


I’m far from perfect, but much better than I used to be. Cars are a huge negative spending habit that I notice. I used to spend huge amounts of money on cars (a 1999 supercharged Corvette), so it’s tough for me to cringe at the choices of others without being aware that I was just as bad. When I see middle-aged guys drive around in BMWs and Infinities, I know they are stuck in the very same spiral of waste that I was.


Would you classify yourself as a Spender or a Saver?


I am a 100% saver, no doubt about it. I do spend money, but only on the things that I know bring me happiness. Over the last couple of years, I’ve come to understand what truly makes me happy and what doesn’t. I realize what “enough” means in my life. Today, I only choose to spend money (and time) on those things that bring a smile to my face.


What’s the one personal finance book that had the biggest impact in your life?


I like The Millionaire Next Door.  That book proves REAL wealth in this country isn’t necessarily obvious, and the people whom we assume are wealthy, due to the cars they drive and things they display (read: show off), are probably swimming in mountains of debt. There are a lot of millionaires out there that drive regular cars, live in normal homes and shop at traditional stores like Walmart and Target. In truth, that’s why they are rich.


Ok now for some non-money questions.

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Give me a list of your top 5 foods?


  1. Chips and Salsa
  2. Nachos with chili
  3. Anything with Scallops
  4. Ice Cream
  5. Confetti cake

What is your favorite drink (alcohol or non-alcohol)?


Though I almost never drink it any more, ice cold Mountain Dew can’t be beat. A good Amber beer always tops my list, too.

What kind of daily traditions or habits do you have?


I’m a huge gym rat. I’m there pretty much every day, including weekends. I have a very serious fitness regimen that keeps me in shape, active and extremely healthy.


Which group do you fall into:


Apple or Samsung? – I’m a big fan of both. I have more Apple than Samsung ATM.


Coke or Pepsi? – Pepsi…ten times over. Definitely Pepsi.


Coffee or Tea? – Coffee


Night owl or morning bird? – Early bird. I’m up and working by 5:30am


I’m a huge music fan, what’s one (or more) of your favorite albums?


I don’t listen to much music outside of the gym. I like traditional Rock, like Daughtry, Creed, Coldplay, David Cook, etc.


What’s the one movie you could watch over and over again and never get tired of it?


Maverick, with Mel Gibson.


What book are you reading right now?


The Spoilers, by Matt Braun.


Finish this sentence with the first thing that comes to mind


I would rather explore than work.


Do you have a favorite quote?


“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step” – No idea who originally said this.


Where can people find you online if they want to get ahold of you? (Think social media accounts)


My personal finance blog can be accessed at

Our travel and exploration blog is at

Our Airstream and tiny living blog, run by my wife, is at


On Twitter: @thinksaveretire, @ftexplorers and @astreaminlife.

On Instagram: @fulltimeexplorers and @astreaminlife.

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